Be Good to Each Other!

Have you ever been bullied?

·         I recently received negative comments on social media for an Instagram post and it really surprised me that I could be judged for something so small. I grew up with Spanish being my second language – my parents didn’t want me to be teased for having an accent the way they had been. I didn’t realize I’d be criticized for not speaking well enough in Spanish.

If your child was being bullied, how would you handle it?

·         I would be calm and supportive and reassure them that it’s not their fault, letting them know that we will work through this together. I’d also notify their teacher to figure out next steps on how to handle the situation.

MomStart‘s Questions and Gina’s Answers:

Celebrities have been on the receiving end of cruel treatment in the media for a long time. Now that smartphones and social media exist, everyone is in the public eye to a certain degree, opening private individuals up to an unprecedented barrage of criticism from strangers. As a public figure, how do you cope with this, and what advice would you give to young people dealing with this kind of unwanted attention online?

·         I’ve learned that no matter what the situation, someone, somewhere will likely have something negative to say about it. Rather than focusing on the hate, I try to keep things in perspective and surround myself with positive energy and positive people as much as possible. We should be focusing on the good we can bring and on lifting people up rather than bringing them down. I try to stay true to my values – my family is a huge support system for me as well.

·         I would tell young people to be confident and embrace the qualities that make them different and unique. Ignore the negative comments and surround yourself with positivity.

MomsLA‘s Questions and Gina’s Answers:

Since becoming a celebrity, you’ve experienced online bullying. How do you manage that as an adult? When do you respond? And when do you ignore?

·         I try to ignore the negative comments that are posted on social media. I like to surround myself with positive energy because it’s unhealthy to surround yourself with hate. As an adult, it’s easier to brush things off and in an industry where you’re constantly being judged makes you grow thick skin.

·         As a woman, I want to set a good example for young adults and inspire them to stick up for themselves. There are appropriate ways to do so without using force and through one’s words. At the end of the day, I can’t control what people say about me but I can inspire and encourage them to be kind and think before they speak spread hurtful messages.

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